WHITE CHRISTMAS WEDDING

The holiday season is the perfect time to celebrate an intimate wedding.  After all, you have already made plans to spend time with those nearest and dearest to you, and travel arrangements are already in place. With holiday decor adding a festive touch everywhere, it is easy to pull together a spontaneous celebration that captures the spirit of the season and a provides for a one-of-a-kind wedding.

Whether or not snow is in the forecast, you can enjoy the magic of a white Christmas with these holiday wedding ideas.

The Perfect  Holiday Wedding Dessert: Eggnog Panna Cotta

Eloping is about breaking free from convention, so instead of a wedding cake, consider serving a festive eggnog panna cotta. This delicious dessert takes five minutes to prepare, and makes a lovely display served on a silver cake stand on a vintage lace tablecloth. Silver ribbon adds easy elegance.

Eggnog Panna Cotta Recipe

Ingredients

4 envelopes unflavored gelatin

12 Tbsp cold water

6 cups of your favorite eggnog

2 cups whipping cream

sugar to taste (optional)

Lightly grease an 8-cup mold with canola oil.

In a large bowl, sprinkle gelatin over 12 tablespoons cold water.

Let the gelatin dissolve for 5 to 10 minutes.

While the gelatin dissolves, heat eggnog and whipping cream until hot, but not boiling.

Add sugar to taste.

Add the hot eggnog mixture to the gelatin.

Mix well and pour into a mold greased with canola oil.

Refrigerate overnight.

Invert the panna cotta on to a serving platter.

To prevent a disaster, immerse the mold in hot water for a few seconds to loosen the panna cotta. Shake it a few times to make sure it has loosened enough to plate it. I highly recommend a "dress rehearsal" to master the technique before showtime.

White Christmas Wedding Decor

Poinsettias are the quintessential holiday flower. Poinsettia blooms in a silver pot make the ultimate fuss-free centerpiece of the season!

Coconut Eggnog - A Tasty Wedding Favor

Your guests will delight in this divine coconut eggnog, a Christmas tradition in my native Puerto Rico. Bottled in vintage bottles and embellished with holiday ornaments, they make the perfect wedding favor. 

Coquito Eggnog Recipe

One 14 oz can of coconut cream

One 13 oz can evaporated milk

One cup white rum

One tsp lemon rind, grated  

One tsp vanilla 

Put all the ingredients in a blender.

Serve ice cold in shot glasses.

ELOPEMENTS AND GREEN WEDDINGS: A WORLD IN COMMON

You may wonder what elopements , the main subject of this blog, have to do with green weddings.  The answer is deceptively simple, because it is all about simplicity.  While not all green weddings are elopements, green weddings, by definition, are small and intimate.The eco-friendly wedding keeps the guest list down, not necessarily to save money or avoid drama, but to keep to a minimum the impact on the environment, gas consumption and emissions related to guest travel. The green wedding is not premised exclusively on the love between the bride and groom, but on their shared love for the planet that sustains them.

Having a green wedding makes sense, and elopers would be well served by incorporating eco-friendly practices into their celebrations.  Green weddings are often officiated in beautiful natural places that are perfectly suited for small groups.  The use of recycled and reusable materials in their invitations, celebration and favors make environmental and financial sense.  Serving locally-grown products sustain the local economy and make a healthy food choice.

On future posts I will share with you ideas that can be adapted to elopements and green weddings with ease and success. 

ANNOUNCING THE ELOPEMENT

You must be wondering, when do you tell people that you're planning to elope? The answer is--you don't--unless you want to be talked out of it. There will be no shortage of self-appointed wedding planners and self-invited guests who will tell you "you can't do that." Share the news with the guests who will be included in your celebration and ask for their discretion.  When curious souls ask you about your wedding plans, just tell then it's a secret and that they'll find out at the appropriate time.

In our case, we invited others to share in our joy by sending announcements (promptly after the wedding) that included a link to our wedding website, where we posted our elopement story with photos of the ceremony and reception for them to view. Nobody appeared offended for not being at the wedding, and we received lots of well wishes from the friends and relatives who sincerely cared about our happiness. That's what marriage is all about.

THE ELOPEMENT GUEST LIST

Now that you've decided to have a private, intimate wedding-who do you invite? The answer, like everything else in your wedding  planning, depends on your personal circumstances. An elopement can be as small as just the bride and groom with witnesses provided by the wedding celebrant, to a small guest list comprised of the couple's closest family and friends. The critical thing to consider is who are the most important and supportive people in your lives and with whom you wish to share your special day. 

The majority of people who will not participate in your ceremony will understand your decision and rejoice for you if you announce your  marriage in a thoughtful, inclusive way.  Do be mindful that, as couples having big weddings, there will always be people who will be bitter for not having been invited. In the case of an elopement, you are armed with the powerful excuse that your event was very small. Remember that you also have the possibility to include those not invited to the ceremony by hosting an afterparty that suits your personal style and finances.

In our case, my husband and I eloped locally. Our wedding consisted of  six guests: the judge, her husband, who acted as volunteer photographer; two close friends whose families always welcomed us into their lives and celebrations; my husband's 18-year-old son and his girlfriend.  We shared a magical evening that included a beautiful ceremony and a romantic candlelight dinner at our favorite inn.  We kept our affair small, because our parents were elderly and lived far away and could not share in the moment.

The morning after the wedding we took our closest friends to brunch to announce our  naughty "indiscretion". After our honeymoon, my parents hosted a 20-guest tapas and sangria reception at a historic property to welcome my husband into the family. We skipped the afterparty because we were overextended with work, personal obligations and the daunting task of building our home.

Our wedding festivities may have been small in number of guests, but filled with love, joy and  support.  That's the beauty of eloping.